Annoy alert! I love Japan, it’s great. But some times the cultural differences can get a little much.
Being pregnant in Japan I have never really had a problem with. I though it was great when I expected Hanna. People are really helpful and concerned for your wellbeing. But it can get a little much. Japanese women have this attitude that you should not do things when your pregnant. Anything it seems like. Don’t ride your bike, don’t work to hard, don’t walk to far, don’t run, don’t do this and that. You should just sit and grow like a potato.
I like to walk and ride my bike. Be active. I take out the garbage, like I always do. I go to the grocery store, I kick ball with Hanna, I get in the Jungle Jim with her. Simply put, I live my life, healthy and safe.
Mike was off today and we decided to clean out our downstairs storage room. I’d packed up Hanna’s old crib to put in there. So there’s some wives outside with their kids and Hanna is there playing with them, while me and Mikey are moving some stuff, and when Mikey goes to get the box with the crib, me and Hanna kick some ball and I chat a bit with one of the wives.
We’re done in less than 30 minutes and as we say bye to everyone outside, this one wife gives me a serious look and rubs her stomach. Saying “you should not work so hard” and gives me this look like I just landed with a parashoot in front of her.
Work so hard?! I mean thank’s for your concern but I’m a grown woman on my second pregnancy, don’t get in my business and tell me what I can and can’t do… Geee!
Even Mikey was like what she mean by that?! Like she was insinuating that I shouldn’t even be helping my husband carrying an empty box to the trash…! Common!
If I was telling you I was planning to race in the Indiy 500 or climb Mount Everest in my 7th month. Then please say something or slap me straight but other then that, just be happy for me and trust that I know my own best.![]()










